Should i marry him?or should i leave him?

Oh boy you are in a dilemma. Good thing he has his parents $$ and yours to keep a roof over his head. Between u and his parents are keeping him afloat he's doing as little as possible to get by. He sounds very insecure. Honestly u need to talk to a attorney and a battered womans center. You can contact human svc and see if they can help you and baby get a new start. The fact that u and him have a baby and he has hit you and degrades you is not a man that loves you. If you split and filed for child support he would be screwed cuz the guy is a lazy a**, and still a little boy. I can say that from exp because if mine didn't have mommy and daddy he acted the same way. I think his parents think of you as there dil but i don't think he thinks of you and his child as his resposibility. He still thinks as an only child and not a father and husband. In other words everybody is putting in 110% to making this all happen and he's still sitting on the couch living in his own world. But when m & d cut his strings he walked out on me and our life, moved in with someone else, i had to pay all the bills keep a roof over my head and deal with all the creditors and he said he loved me and all that crap. After a few yrs i lost my 8 yr job. And lost my home that belonged to my family. I moved everything myself and moved on. Never saw him again until my sister said something. After 3 yrs i had a nervous breakdown and realized he was his parents little boy he wasn't responsible for anything unless they made him and i was a stepmom and wife but he was their little boy. I cant see you and him having a prosperous future unless things change. Any man that is supposed to be your partner is with you and lifting you up not hitting you and putting you down and treating you like you are to serve him. I say don't marry him u see the hurt already. You don't need that.