Friday, July 22, 2011

Do you think he's interested in me more than just a friend (mixed signals)?

Regarding the good, does he behave that way to other girls? If he does, then he's just a nice guy. I think he would have made a move by now if he wants more than friendship.

Is the role of the president to intervene and 'create' 'jobs'?

Evidently, that is what our seven non-interventionist republic party primary candidates think because they all one way or another paid lip service to Obama's failure to 'create' 'jobs' thereby at least implying they have better ideas about 'creating' more 'jobs'. Haven't these people heard that it is not the role of government to intervene, choose winners and losers, and determine outcomes? Shouldn't they be praising Obama for 'creating' no 'jobs'? Why is the non-interventionist republic party suddenly a bunch of hand-wringing, tree-hugging pansies in touch with their feelings and worried about everybody else?

Can a landlord list a property at a certain amount and change it higher right before you move in?

I applied for a new rental with my current rental company, we've always been good tenants and paid our rent on time. Now 30 days later, the previous tenants have vacated the property and I'm about to sign my lease the rental company upped the rent $50 just because "the owner decided it was worth more" and because we're going from a 2 bedroom house to a 3 bedroom house (the property manager literally said this) and the $750 was the same as what were paying for our 2 bedroom. So if a company lists a property at say $750 for a 2 bedroom house and right when you're about to sign your lease agreement change it to $800 because "the owner decided it was worth more", are they breaking any laws? like false advertising or something like that?

Do guys these days really apreciate a girl who saves her virginity till mariage?

i have always wanted to save my virginity until i marry my husband but then i think what if my husband doesn't appreciate this we get in a divorcee and he already did i don't know how many girls before me and i saved myself for him. another part of me wants to have fun and not get married until i am in my mate 20 but the civilized me says wait until you get married so i really dont know

What the Malaysian government doing about th Africans and Nigerians involved in all kind of illegal activities?

What the Malaysian government doing about the Africans and Nigerians involved in all kind of illegal activities? Many articles was published in the local newspapers about the so called African students ( Old Buffaloes) nuisance in Malaysia. Most of them look so old (above 40 and 50 above) but bribing the Immigration Department and Higher Education Department obtaining illegal student visas and all of them are found sitting at bus stops, super markets, cyber cafes but suppose to be in colleges involved in all type of illegal activities. Daily they are found sitting at beer shops consuming beers with Filipino widows and divorcees and maids at Taman Wawasan Puchong, Pusat Bandar Puchong, Pusat bandar Puteri and enjoying life like dukes. The Filipino women and also local widows and divorcees in exchange for sex pay rent for the AFRICANS and Nigerians to live in high class condos. The Africans also drive expensive cars which are obtained through various scams in the internet. Why the ruling government or state government still allowing the Africans to enter daily in Malaysia?

RAW SPOILER 27/06/11?

John Cena vs R Truth For WWE title - R Truth looks set to win title until john morrison intervenes and costs him his chance - this will then create a fued and they will face off at MITB - leaving the CM Punk and Cena fued to commence.

What is the best way to save money for kids? *Special situation, please help*?

The best way will be the 529. If she needs some of the money now for the kids support it is fine to use the money--treat it as cash either way. It can not hurt you, child support money is not taxable, it is a privilege.

Is online divorce a con? Whats cheapest best way?

My partner and his ex wife want to divorcee. All very amicable, no house or children. They grew apart married young he in army etc, no nastness in anyway. We been looking at online divorce, is this good or con, is it the cheapest? Any ideas. They only thing he wants to do is protect his pension, she hasnt mentioned wanting any of it. Any one have advice best cost affective way?

Dominant or submissive?

I have 4 poms, 2 older ones (M & F) & 2 1 1/2 yr M, both of which we got at the same time at 8 and 12 wks old back in Jan. of 2010. At 9 mo.old (Aug. 2010) they starting having minor aggession issues with each other ONLY-older dogs not involved. 1 day it turned aggressive with Bailey pinning Joey down. We tried to pull Bailey off Joey thinking that would do it, but Bailey was not letting go. I did a stupid thing & tried to pry his jaws open only for him to release his jaws & clamp down on my finger, which once he realized it was me, he let go. My husband & I were shocked as we never witnessed this behavior of aggression in the 20 years we have owned poms as pets. Our dogs have had fights but nothing that aggressive. The "boys" were both immediately neutered & separated until we figured out what to do. I've been told to give 1 up to solve the problem, but my dogs are my kids & I refuse to give 1 up without a fight myself. Have done a ton of research on dog aggression, how to handle it, sibling rivalry & the famous "littermate syndrome" which is the category I believe I fall under & feel really stupid that I didn't know alot of this stuff beforehand. Looking back I realize we probably should have let the fight continue & maybe it would have been settled then & there, but I was so terrified that Joey was going to get hurt that I couldn't take the risk, Bailey is 3 wks younger than Joey but also much stronger. Here is the "short" version of the steps we have taken. In Aug. they have had to be in separate rooms for about 3-4 months because they couldn't stand the sight of 1 another. Around Dec.they could at least glance at each other without being aggressive but still didn't want to be in the same room for long without trying to fight. In Jan. I decided that I needed to do more basic training with them as far as sitting, stay, wait, down, etc. & that seemed to work very well. We have been slowly reintroducing themselves to one another for the past 5 mo. now & have made GREAT progress. We are FINALLY to the point where they sometime initally growl at each other but then stop. Keep in mind they are always on leashes or we pick them up to transfer from room to room, & have NOT had any voluntary physical contact with each other whatsoever for the past 10 months. When they are in the same room, we keep them on long leashes with one being tied to one area of the room & the other tied to another area where they can just reach each other without having contact. This has gone very well on most occasions. In the past 3 weeks, we have occassionally let them have more contact (head to head) but not full body & NEVER off the leashes or without 1 of us in between them. At 1 point they were actually licking each other & play barking but eventually would both show signs of domininace with each other, paw on back, head on shoulder, etc, & then eventually lead to Bailey's stare and stance, then the warning growl, & we would quickly have to intervene So finally to the point of my question, in my research I have read that if we have 2 dominant dogs we need to decide which 1 is more dominant & then reward that dog for his dominant behavior by feeding, walking first, etc. I do not agree with this at all. I don't believe you should reward a dog for being a bully but I guess that's not the issue here. If we are to do the next step, I need to know for sure who is more dominant. We believe it is Bailey but are not sure. These are their signs. Bailey is definitely the 1st with the dominant stare & stance but usually doesn't start the dominance signs 1st as far as paw placement & usually doesn't growl first. He's more like a lion waiting for his prey type(I know that's not funny, but I'm trying to find humor in my situation) However, Joey is always more cautious if he knows Bailely is in the next room but always barks or growls first when he's coming towards Bailey. (By that I mean for example, Joey will be upstairs with my husband & when they come down, they are separated by gates but Joey knows Bailey is on the other side of the gate), When they have close contact and are behaving, Joey will ALWAYS be the 1st one to turn away from eye contact. I know this is a submissive sign but he also shows signs of dominance too. I believe Joey acts more submissive but he will definitely respond back if Bailey starts the fight which I know is understandable. But he has never shown full submission and I don't believe he ever wil Also, every time they have close contact, Joey will turn around & put his butt up to Bailey head. Bailey never does this to Joey. Is this dominance or submission? Please no lectures on being selfish & trying to keep them both.They are not in any way being neglected or deprived of anything. If anything, it me & my husband who have had to change our lives but believe they are worth it. Also, do you think after all this

Lease question and buying house?

Our 1st lease to our apt is up in august. A few weeks ago they had us sign the second lease to next year in nov. We just got an opportunity to buy our dream house. Can we legally end that second lease since the first one isn't even over yet so we can buy the house. If not...what can we do about this?

When a woman gets divorced does she become very promiscuous for a while after?

I hear these stories about guys meeting these divorcees who have had the same guy for 20 years and suddenly they are allowed to be with other men so they turn into nymphos for a year or two after the divorce, is this true?

How can the British people justify the existence of their monarchy in an ever increasing modern world?

We can't justify it. It is an outdated institution and we the majority of Brits feel embarrassed and ashamed by it. Looking forwa\rd to the revolution.

This problem needs to be settled NOW!!!?

Okay, my former best friend(lets call her 'K') dated my cousin('A') all of 8th grade year. He was in 9th grade(keep in mind he's like the older brother I've always wanted & I love him like he's my brother) They contemplated getting married & me, being the stupid kid I was, told her it was an amazing idea & encouraged her. They broke up almost a year in2 the relationship & he's never wanted a relationship with her since. Well she decides to drag her anger out until now & it still flows. She's always talking down to him and rants about him to me, knowing that I think of him as a brother. She knows I hate it. Also, all three of her relationships she's had have lasted @ leas 8 months & involved engagement & she lives with her current 'fianc�'. 2 days ago my current best friend(Lauren) posted a song lyric & my cousin commented with the lyric that comes right after that. K decides to type " I'm starting to wonder why you like to stalk you ex's"( A dated Lauren for a month & they're still friends). Lauren says "not on my status" so they'll take it some where else. K proceeds to call A some names & A is pretty angry by now so he says 'Hoe please, you better bow down in both knees' since K NEVER finishes what she starts she drags her bf into it & he calls A a spick. A leaves a comment & idk what the **** he's talking about & he never comments back. I'm not condoning what A said but he's been cool the whole time K has been riding his ***. It seems like she never got over their break up. Some days she says **** like 'he was my first love, I'll always love him' & other days she's cussing him oy behind his back. & she never has to hear from him. She lives in Texas & he moved to Kanas (:'( ). She still has him as a friend on FB & I tell her all she has to do is delete & block him & she always comes up w a lame excuse 2 keep him. 4 years is long enough. Every1(but me, I'm 17) is in their freshman/sophomore year of college & it's time to grow up. Do I intervene? What do I do?

Name and address of agencies which help a single lady to get pregnant legally at bangalore or in karnataka?

I am single lady (divorcee). I am ably settled at bangalore. I wish to have a child for my own. I dont want to part with anyone else. I want to get pregnant by legal means. Can any agency at bangalore can help me in this regards.

What are ways that I can negotiate lower rent with my landlord?

I've been a tenant for three years where I currently live, and rent is quite high. I lost my job and am going back to school. Been a good tenant and paid on time ALMOST every month. Month-to-month lease. How can I negotiate lower rent? Any tips, strategies, advice?

Is my plot really boring? Please help?

My plot is simple yet soapieish. Vicki divorced alexi after catching the maid "cleaning" his lap with...her mouth. Now she's trying to date again with minimal success...But it's hard for a middle aged divorcee with 6 kids. She attracts doctors, lawyers, hotdog salesmen and mimes. Katy who is her oldest daughter got drunk and slept with hunter who is allie's husband...they are sisters. Now katy is pregnant and isnt sure if him or her friend danny is the father. Hunter raped seraphina and she passed her baby off as eric's to protect allie. Alexi is engaged to rosa...who secretly is a golddigger and is of course cheating with hunter. Vicki slept with alexi one last time and had baby julia rose. She wont tell alexi about her out of spite. Alexi had just realized that vicki is the only woman he will ever love...she wont take him back...the pain is too much. What should i name this book? Is it any good? Is there anything i should change? Is it too soap opera-ish? Any suggestions are welcome. Xoxo

What is “Gross Domestic Product” (GDP), and how is it determined each month? What does the term “Recession” m?

What is “Gross Domestic Product” (GDP), and how is it determined each month? What does the term “Recession” mean and how do we know when one occurs? How does government intervene to move the economy out of a recession?

Are there any 24h cafes near Leicester Square in London?

It doesn't have to be a cafe really. I'd pretty much go for anywhere I can sit inside for a few hours. The reason for asking is that I might go and see the midnight premiere of a film in London, but I'm not from London and don't have a car so the earliest train back home I could catch would be at 5am. Where could I pass the intervening hours?

I can't move on from a woman who has a boyfriend because she treats me like she's into me...what do I do, wait?

.I think Kristen you are probably right And she doesn't know how to practically deal with her sexuality.So why not arrange a date at an up market coffee lounge. There you can get to know each other better.Without her feeling cornered

What should I do? Shall i wait for him?!?

stop acting like a crazy woman.....get a grip. Are u living in reallity? u are not even divorced yet and u are already trying to get married.... are u nuts? He is not even divorced yet either. you need to stop stalking him, calling him and saying your in love with someone u have never met this is not love. you need to find yourself and build some confidence and stop believing everything a guy tells u? sounds like he just wants to have sex with u.

What I have to do?? Suggestions pls?

I would wait and see what happens. You two were proposing to each other, so you're not going to get over him any time soon. However, he's very driven by fear and is clearly not ready to be too close or intimate soon. So I wouldn't count on him contacting you again, but you never know. Wait it out.

What should I do? How I have to face this?

If you forget him, then to look to persuade him. If he really couldn't convince you should abandon him.

I found out what happened last night with my girlfriend and I don't know how to handle this?

So, I found out that what happened last night was much worse than I anticipated. Apparently, her dad, being insensitive again, said something, I guess, wrong. Lexi must have said something that upset him greatly because he slapped her, which he hasn't done since she was 7. Her newly-found brother, intervened and began fighting with her dad, and left after being insulted and slightly beaten by her dad. I really have no clue how to handle this. I'm only 16 so I know I don't have the right to go to her dad and risk making matters worse, and I have no clue on to her brother's whereabouts, and I am not leaving Lexi alone by herself. I've already told my mom but she really doesn't know to do either. Lexi forbids me from going to the cops. I want her to stay here with me, but she would need to get her clothes, phone, id cards, etc and I am NOT sending her back into that house without some sort of protection. So, Yahoo Answers, what do I do and how can I help my girlfriend with this problem?

Am I right or he wrong?

ok i understand how u are feeling, but remember that this is not your partner's fault, she has not done anything wrong, shes not flirting with him, shes just being friendly. if you react nasty or shout its likely that the problem will not be solved and it will just cause an argument (im not saying you do this ) ... but if you sit her down, tell her how much u love her and how much she means to u, but there is something bothering u and making u insecure about the relationship, tell her that it makes you uncomfortable , then im sure she will do something about it. if my boyfriend has a problem with something i prefer him to talk to me about it so i can change it and make it better, so i think you should do the same :) and i wouldnt say anyone is right or wrong - your partner isnt really doing anything wrong, but i can understand why youre upset and theres nothing wrong with being upset about it, i probably would be too. just tell her how u feel :)

Can an apartment complex legally do this?

Im surprised you dont have a copy of the lease, which is handed over after signing. As long as you have all your rental receipts, these will be your proof that you are being charged $25 extra for nothing. Might be wise to seek legal advice, looks to me you have a good case here. And greedy landlords.

She's older than me...some times i feel thats the problem?

she's older than I am....and more educated. I dated her with the intent of embracing how different we are, yet so much alike. We're alike as far as what we want out of life and how we view our relationship. She's a divorcee. I've never been married. Niether of us have children of our own. She is at a point where she really really wants kids (33yo). I'm at a point where I'm ready to meet my future wife, I also want children, but not as soon as she do (26y/o). She has advanced college degrees (masters and working on Phd). I am a college drop out but work two jobs and am just as ambitious. She admires my drive and my ambition. I admire the same of her. The beginning of the relationship has been a little rocky b/c communication sucked, mainly b/c she and I are terribly busy, her school and working full time....and my doing 70+ hours a week btween both jobs. we've tried working on how well we communicate and i try to present an open and honest enviroment for us to communicate. She's more reserved in nature where as I'm very extrovertive.....anyway, the constant back and forth between her and I about how I'm "seeming" too aggressive or assertive in my approach (when i was simply trying to be romantic) and her drilling me with "slowing down" and so forth has honestly caused me to be more reluctant in my approach. Seriously we hardly see eachother and i really have tried to express how I'm romantically interested in her....but some how she always read into my actions and approach differently? anyway we agreed to slow things down (as if things arent slow enough) and to not jump to sex.....but the two times that we got intimate it was her that persisted or initiated in a sense.....and well it has confused me. I mean the first time we shared an intimate moment she felt guilty afterwards (bc she felt she was crossing the line)and just made me feel bad for ever even taking her clothes off....even though we did nothing, mainly b/c I couldnt perform b/c i sensed uneasiness from her. but i was willing to take things slow with her. i'm in no rush to have sex.....a month and couple weeks later (last night) we again share an intimate moment, and yet again I was reluctant (just a week ago she scolled me at how she feels rushed and pressured by me and so on) but she was persistant. i couldn't say no, b/c I really wanted too....but i guess my body was saying wait...and I went soft....she's upset. I know. she wouldnt even kiss me last night just turned to give me her cheek. i tried talking to her in text today and was trying to plan that we relax in a jacuzzi tonite... i told her how i'm so unsure with her and this adds to my anxiety...I clarified that i am very interested in her and I really do want her....but anyway she told me how i need to slow down and etc, then she mentions that we have "time". ??? but anyway I'm reflecting on the relationship in general, and though I am attracted to her.... I'm just wondering, is ther anything that could come of her and I? I feel that she and I share similarities as far as our morals and the way we think....but at the same time we are sooooo different. and I mean i like different b/c it spices things up...but she and I are almost TOO different. you know? I do appreciate all who reads this. Though I am not interested in shallow answers, I am looking for more indepth answers. Real answers, if you will.

Guys: what should I do with female subordinates who hate me? Should I fire them?

If you are any kind of a manager, you can bring most of them around. If you can't win them over, then maybe you are in over your head.

What do I need to do to begin receiving BAH payments from the Army?

When I got married we had to have a lease. You can make up a lease agreement between yourself and your parents. I had a friend that stayed with me, since I owned my house I went to JAG and they gave me a standard lease that we had them notarize. This helped my friend start her BAH, since she was staying with me it was totally legal and legit. Use JAG its free. Even if its temporary. Then when you start collecting BAH you can go out and get an apartment and enter into a new lease that is more permanent. Its a catch 22 you need BAH to get an apartment but you cant get an apartment without BAH.

Help!!! Thanks. -hugs-?

Hi. I got the awesome idea and I am bit struck with characters atm. :( This story is set in Melbourne, Australia, 2010 - 2012. #1 Main character is 29 and born in 1981, America. She's spanish/american businesswoman and live with her adoptive family in Melbourne. She's humble, quiet, private, bookworm, intelligent, strong, sensitive, determine and stubborn young woman. #2. Main male character is 31 and born in 1971, Sydney, Australia. He's top lawyer and live with his family. He's japanese/irish/english young man. He's wealthy, arrogant, tough, selfish, bad temper and jerk. He's the love interest in #1. #3. Second female character is 29 and born in 1981, Melbourne. She's the best friend of #1 and she lives with her family. She's french/new zealand and fashion designer. She's humble, chatterbox, friendly, loud, private and funny young woman. #4. Third female character is 27 and born in 1983, America. She's full american and live with her adoptive family in Sydney, Australia. She's humble, intelligent, talkative, outgoing, strong, nature lover, serious, private, determined and protective young woman. She's step sister of #1 #5. Fourth female character is 25 and born in 1985, America. She's tourist agency and hotel manager young woman who also is the divorcee young woman who raise her son on her own. She live in Gold Coast, Australia. She's half sister of #1 and #4. She's intelligent, elegent, humble, hard - working, bookworm, kind, serious, strong, brave, loveable and private young woman. Hope this help you to see the image of my characters. I want something special and unique for my characters please. -hugs- Thanks for listen to me, guys. -hugs-

I am 47. I am ok with my wife but in love with a friend who is divorcee. She is my first love.what i do.?

Marriage means a promise and a commitment and of love! I think its better u dont encourage such thoughts! When u r ok with ur wife then whats the problem? Even if u dont love ur wife i think u should be loyal to her! If ur wife comes to know abt this just imagine the situation! I say u better ignore such feelings stay a little away from ur friend.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Woman in Nottingham refused IVF was this right?

On the news this morning was a report about a woman whos has been refused a second course of IVF treatment. She had previously had this treatment and had both conceived and gave birth to a baby, the issue is that unfortunately the baby died! The Primary Care Trust considered her application for more IVF Treatment however they refused as the conditions for IVF state that if you conceive and go on to have a live birth you are ineligible for anymore treatments. However is this fair? It was no ones fault that her baby died just a tragic quirk of fate, On the other hand do any of us have a right to have this treatment irrespective of circumstances or consequences, Nature surely decides those that have the means to reproduce, not through favouritism, Postcode lotteries or comes to that whether we are suitable or responsible parents or citizens.Surely the bottom line has to be nature made us who we are, man learnt how to intervene and even things out but ultimately we still have no RIGHT to have children just a capability.

Could anyone give real life examples on government intervention that affected the economy?

Microsoft has acted like a monopoly by selling window, and buying the competitors. That causes the new development of the products to be slower after the government intervention.

Signed a lease for an apartment, when do i get my holding deposite back?

going to be moving into an apartment in 2 months, signed the lease this morning and they asked us to put down a holding deposit in the amount of our rent. is this going to be returned to me when i pay the security deposit and first months rent or what?

Can Prince Charles be King of Britain having married after being divorced?

I understood that divorcees were not allowed to marry into the royal family (Hence Princess Margaret not being able to marry her first choice years ago). So, now that Charles has divorced and remarried, will he be able to become King?

Can I make such WILL - Question on Legal Heir and WILL - Pls Help!!!?

You have unnecessarily prolonged your question. Many points are imaginary. Anyway, as your son is minor, he cannot execute release deed in your favour. So you will have to wait until he becomes major. To get the flat transferred in the name of legal heirs, you can apply to the Revenue Dept. along with affidavit and death certificate of your husband. Revenue authorities are empowered to transfer the property in the name of heirs after getting confirmed that the legal heirs mentioned in the application are correct. If necessary, you may get heir certificate from court. Question No. 3- Your son shall not be entitled to throw you out even after his marriage. If he tries so, you can take the help of law. Q 4- Unless all heirs consent, you cannot sell the property. Q. 5- If your son, after being major, and daughters can execute power of attorney in your favour at any time. In power of attorney, its purpose is required to be referred. e.g. whether power of attorney has been executed to sell the property or to take care of the property etc. If the heirs are ready then only they will execute power of attorney and it can be cancelled at any time. So the question of throwing out forcefully with the help of P/Attorney does not arise. If the situation described by you in Q. 6 arises, you will have only remedy to take the help of court. Your last important point is whether you can give your share to any of your children as per your choice. The answer is that the flat is not your self acquired property, so you cannot give it to any one heir by making will or by executing any other document. Even if will is executed, other heirs may challenge it. You can do so only with consent of other heirs.

How do i deal with my best friend?

she is 19 and her mom and her step dad got a divorce about 2 months ago and her step dad wanted the divorcee and my best friend lives on her own and i was over to her place and there was a knock at the door and it was her step dad and they kissed on the lips and they sat next to each other and he put his hand on her knee and after he left i talked to my best friend and she said she has been dating her step dad for about 7 months and she told me she was 3 months pregnant and he is planing on moving in with her and her mother doesn'tt know anything. so my question is how do i deal with this my best friend dating her step dad. and should i tell her mother whats going on? my best friends mom and now ex husband have 3 kids together. so will it be awkwardd when they have family dinners? please help me i don'tt know what to do.

Whether i should get married to her or not?

I am an 30 years old male Indian. I had 3 relationship in the past out of which i went physical with only one. I met a girl on the internet on 7th Oct 2010. She is a 32 years old brazilian. At the beginning she told me about her life. She said she is a divorcee and has a 9 years old kid. She got married at the age of 19 and got divorced the next years. She told me she had another relationship with a man for 4 years. 5 months down the line. I chatted with her friend and she gave me some hints about her past. I was worried about her past since we decided to get married. Everyday i started asking her about her past. Finally she said after divorce she kissed lot of men in the parties but did not have sex with them. It sounded weired to me. She kissed but not had sex...i think it is impossible to control sexual urge after kissing. Till today she says she never had sex with strangers. I went on asking more. She declared another relationship which never lasted long but she slept with that guy also.....Guys i have no idea why she was hiding these things from me. I made her explain that i love her and will forgive her for her deeds in the past. I know she loves me but the biggest problem is she lies and she hides.....It has been 6 months that we are on the internet and decided to get married. After knowing that she lies and hides i am confused whether i should get married to her or not.....I don even know how many men she has slept with....infact ido not know how many men have ****** her!!! sorry for the language....i am frustrated!!! I need a girl who never hides or lies to me and love me a lot. She loves me but i do not know if she is telling the truth!!! Please help me decide whether i should get married to her or no!!!

Question about IRS and how much trouble my employer would get in?

Ok so heres the run down. My employer, a cigar shop, hired me summer of 2010 for the summer, and has re hired me for the summer of 2011. In 2010 I worked at the store along with all other employees under the table, so the boss wouldnt have to report to the IRS any tax information. Now that the boss is in divorce and the divorcee wants money or the business, the IRS is looking into the businesses financial records. I recently got in trouble at work for what the boss thought of as stealing, however, I was not fired because I proved I didn't do it. It seems at though my boss may fire me. If she does so I want to go to the IRS to report this crime she committed because, well shes a *****, and deserves to get in trouble for it. How much trouble would my employer get in if this was reported, would I get in more trouble for not reporting it sooner, What would happen to the business? etc

Pls help me!!! im confused?

im a 24 yr old guy workin in mumbai....im in love with my 44 yr old neighbour who is a divorcee....i think she also likes me & she said she wants a life partner....pls help me

Breaking lease under military clause?

I signed an apt lease and very shorty after married my husband who's in the navy. I continued living at my apt in Texas because he deployed right after we married. My husband will be returning to VA here he is based and I want to break my lease and move up there. My apt is telling me I cant break it under the military clause because he isn't on the lease. After we married I asked if I needed to add him and they so no because he wasn't going to be actually living at the apt. and since he isn't on the lease the military clause does matter. Does anyone know if this is true?

BAH After Divorce in the Army?

I have filed for divorce in Texas, and it will be final after 60 days. I am an E-4, collecting the BAH W/DEP rate. Both my wife and I are on a lease off post that will last another 10 months. I currently have an allotment set up for the total BAH W/DEP amount that goes into her account since the rent comes out of her account. The landlord will not let me off the lease, and she has no way of paying the rent without me, and I cannot afford to pay anything without BAH. My question is, when the divorce is final, can I put in a 4187 to change to the without dependents rate for length of the lease since that was done prior to my BAH entitlement ending, or am I just SOL and going to have to go into debt with breaking a lease and having that on my credit? Fort Hood doesn't authorize BAH usually unless you are E-6 and above, and S1 wasn't any help at all when I asked them this question. If anyone has a definitive answer, or a reference on the reg governing this it would be appreciated. I am deploying very soon and need to make sure I'm not going to get screwed while I'm gone. Thank you

Breeding Guppies - questions?

Well the ratio Isn't good. Ik they say 1 male to 2 females, witch should be done but get at least 1 or 2 more females, so it a 3:4 or 5 ratio. Um from my experience, the babies grow way faster if u keep them with the adults and have like a bunch of plants in thee corner so they can swim to the current and get stronger faster, other than that I've never really kept tract of how long it takes. Prolly a few months if u feed them separate baby food with there in the corner hiding

Breaking Lease under military clause?

I signed an apt lease and very shorty after married my husband who's in the navy. I continued living at my apt in Texas because he deployed right after we married. My husband will be returning to VA here he is based and I want to break my lease and move up there. My apt is telling me I cant break it under the military clause because he isn't on the lease. After we married I asked if I needed to add him and they so no because he wasn't going to be actually living at the apt. and since he isn't on the lease the military clause does matter. Does anyone know if this is true?

I really like this person, but seems that I have run out of options, what must I do?

next time you meet her, ask her when her birthday is, then tell her your turning ... on this date. Ask her to go have lunch with you, coffee or something.

How to get a soul mate after divorce?

how to get a soul mate after divorce ple tell me my phn no & sms 09953005400 i am divorcee 28 /m/ delhi

I can't get over a woman who has a boyfriend because she treats me like she's into me...what do I do? Wait?

I would suggest that you learn this one tool that has helped me tremendously over the past few years. When I meet someone and it feels like there is a connection but at the same time it feels like it is not making sense, it is time for a reality check. Anyone can say and act in ways that are confusing to us. This gal seems to be one of them. When I first meet someone I do not believe whay they say and I only watch their behavior because behavior always reveal the TRUTH about a person. It is obvious that she is giving you mixed signals. This is not helpful to you because her signals are hot and then cold. Why would you want someone that treats you this way? Is it just lust or infatuation? Because it is not love. Definitely not love. Here I go again, but my daughter asked an elderly gentleman that we have known for years and she asked him how he had managed to stay married for 60 years. His answer was perfect. He said, "'well I only want the best for her and she only wants the best for me. That is how we show our love for one another." Great description of love. And I am sorry but this gal-pal is leading you one and obviously is not wanting what is best for you. I believe she knows that you are attracted to her and she enjoys the attenion. But when it comes to actually pursuring you, she is pretty darn lame. From this moment forward, everytime you begin to get all emotional and are lusting over her or feeling a strong infatuation with her, stop the obsessing and enter the real world. People that are in love with another do not treat them in the manner in which she has been treating you. Does she want the best for you? I do not believe so. Do you wish the best for her? Probably so. Understand that love is a two-way street and one person cannot keep a relationship going. It takes two. She is not serious, at least not as serious as you wish that she would be. She is playing games with your heart and your heart deserves better. Cool this relationship. It is good that you aren't hanging with her much now. She was using you to make herself feel better about her ability to attract others, She is a player. Forget her. Do not spend one more second dwelling on the past. I think that you have a huge case of infatuation. There will be plenty more loves heading your way. Don't waste your time on one that definitely does not want the best for you. She is totally into herself and there isn't any room for anyone else when one is totally focused on herself. Good luck to you and Bless you. When one door closes another one always opens. Bless you again.

Room-mate broke lease, left belongings, is now asking for his security deposit back.?

I personally think it might be best to go to court or at least seek legal advice because your situation with this roommate is so complicated. I've attached a link which is Michigan's practical guide to tenant/landlord rights. It gives you advice about what to do in situations like these. With regards to the security deposit, you have to check your lease about breaking it and refunding any person's security deposit, and I would go talk to management myself or call them to ask their advice on the situation as well.

Question on Trinity for those who are interested?

There is not a trinity and they have to make up words not found in the Bible to describe or explain it.

What's a nice way to say this?

If Dan asks you out again, tell him "thank you, but I honestly...I just want to keep things platonic between us." You don't have to give him a long explanation, but you do owe him an honest answer. If he pressures you for an explanation, then just say that you are interested in someone else. These things happen all the time. In your situation, there's no tip-toeing around it...you have to tell him you're not interested. I'm sure he would rather know the truth than have you make up some lie...and then see you start dating his friend Eric. Even if this damages your friendship with Dan, that's the chance that he took when he asked you out. He's the one who took the risk, so you shouldn't feel bad. These sticky situations happen all the time in the dating world...they're unavoidable. All you can do is be honest and gracious...and let him down as kindly as you can.

My husband is not loving or caring me even after all sacrifices ,he is?

a divorcee.before marriage he promised so much for a happy life and he has no one in the world to support him mentally or socially,etc,now after six years of marriage he is bringing his sister and brother's family in our life.now he is supporting financially to them even in our business he is bringing their children ,there are so much interfernence in my family life now,he is avoiding talking with me on any matter,and shows anger if i talk about his relatives's interference,on the top of this he wants me not to keep any relationship with my own brother sisters,whenever they come to see me for a day or two,he insults and indirectlly talks absurd so that they should not come to see me,my life has become a havoc,pls suggest me?

10 points, does he like me? or is there any chance?

I don't know, I guess you would have to wait until you were out of school because him being a teacher I bet he cant even risk saying or telling you that he was interested. I wouldn't push it until you're out of school so that he'll actually be able to let you know how he feels!

I write sexually explicit stories for a porn forum?

Some women like this, most don't. You just have to ask your wife. Even if it doesn't float her boat, she should still be supportive of you.

Can you guys tell me what is this?

It seems the lady is suffering from insecurity. They should live separately without seeing each other for a few days/months. If the urge is there should meet each other then get married.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Can my landlord increase my rent?

My landlord is also my boss my lease ran out in march he didn't seem to bothered about doing another one saying he's happy for me to continue staying there at the same price now 3 months later he wants to write a new contract and put the rent up it's only an extra �25 but can he do this? Also should I ask him for a pay rise I've worked for him for just over 3 years and rented from him for just over 2 years

I answer phones at my new job (yawn). Why are people so rude on the phone?

I used to be an HR Professional and had a lot of high level duties. Now I'm a receptionist at a law firm. I now understand why some receptionists are so cranky. People are buttholes on the phone. What happened to respect and being polite? Even before I answered phones I was ALWAYS pleasant on the phone any time I called any place. I think it's common courtesy. My law firm doesn't represent criminals or divorcees so it's not like I'm getting really cranky people going through those things. Sigh..

Why don't I have any friends?

Hi, I'm a 30 year old, attractive, easy to get along with person. I recentlty got married in 2009, and I feel as though my friends don't like me anymore. I have been close with 2 other girls for about 10+ years. (one of them I have been friends with since kindergarten) I was a maid of honor in friend # 1's wedding, and a bridesmaid in the other's. Anyway, in 2008, one of them decided to get divorced. Of course I was a little disappointed, and told her I thought she should really think about her decison, but I let her know that I supported her in any way possible and that I was clearly on her side. I have to say that I was really hurt when began confiding in the other friend of ours more than me. I was totally kept in the dark during the whole process, where I didn't know ANYTHING!! While it hurt, I was respectful and gave her space, not calling her too much, or asking too many questions. So, these two have grown really really close during the last 3 years, distancing themselves from me totally. I got married in 2009, they were both in my wedding, one of them left my wedding early.......she was the maid of honor! (I was pissed) My bachellorette party was basically thrown without any effort, nothing like I have ever thrown for them. (they have money as they are both teachers) Now friend #2 is getting a divorce too, and same thing......I know NOTHING! I don't even know who these girls are datingnevermind anything else. I own an insurance agency and they have NEVER stepped foot in my office to get a quote! Honestly, I feel they do not like me, so I don't push my way into their little twosome/divorcee/teacher bond. What really made me confront them was last summer Lady Gaga was on tour, and they told me they had bought tickets with another group of girls, and were getting a hotel room, limo, dressing up to the 9's......going all out. I said, "really, thats nice I would have loved to go!" One of them mumbled that they didn't think I wanted to go. At first I wasn't too pissed because I figured they didn't ask me bc I am married now, but when I found out that other girls who were married were going, I flipped! We didnt talk for a few months after that, but now we sort of made up, but still I never talk to them, I know nothing about their lives and they know nothing about mine. It's like an empty shell with nothing inside! Why??? What is wrong with me??? What did I do wrong? I have been so down about my horrible social life, I reached out to some old friends I knew in highschool but have been rejected by them as well. I invited them to my 30th birthday party, and no one showed up! I let that go, rationalizing that maybe they don't feel comfortable coming bc its beeen a while. I went to dinner with them a few weeks later, and had a great time. Just yesterday, I saw pics on FB of one of their wedding showers, that I was not invited to! I guess I am really living in a dreamworld about friendships! What am I doing wrong? Please advise. Sorry so long!

Wishy-washy tenant is annoying landlord-how to resolve?

Cut bait. A $25 month increase is a small increase. I would be asking at least an additional $75 month for the convenience of not signing a new lease.

Why doesn't my husband look the other way if I flirt with others?

A guy who marries a divorcee like me (or a widow) knows and accepts the fact that I was fu**ed by somebody else previously. He also very well knows and accepts that in case our marriage fails I would move on with my life and marry somebody else in future and gets fu**ed by him also. Then why does he expect me to be faithful to him while married to him? Why doesn't he look the other way if I flirt while married to him even though I don't take a single cent from a parasite like him and he lives in my home, uses my car and I pay for all his expenses?

Question About The Rwandan Genocide?

LOL Belgians caused the Rwandan Genocide which was fought between two African Tribes! It mankes so much sense now! How about before you put this BS inline you get your FACTS straight. Get a ******* book kid.

Psychic my mom had signed a lease to a house and yesterday they called saying we have the house, i want to?

know will i get homesick,i mean i'm happy that we got the house, it just that i'm not sure , if i'm going to adjust to the new environment and the house. i'm use to living in apartments,now i have to adjust living in a house, will i feel comfortable?

Can't get over the girl/woman who has a boyfriend and don't know if I should even try...?

You should try, seeing as how she's playing with you, you play with her too. <.< anyways, She definitely likes you, but isn't comfortable about other people knowing about her true sexuality. You should invite her for a drink, and just sit down and talk.

Reading apartment lease contract?

Is there a site where I can post an apartment lease contract and someone/people can read it and make sure I'm not missing something or there's no fine print or weird clauses etc?

Can my landlord still charge me for "damages" if he already returned my security deposit?

My landlord returned the security deposit within 30 days of the end of the lease (like he was supposed to according to law), but on top of having deducted money for normal wear and tear (e.g. touch up paint, bathroom cleaning fees, etc), he's now asking for more money for damage that we supposedly did to the house even after he'd already returned our deposits. Can we just ignore him? Sue him? Or do we still have to argue with him over every little thing he's accusing us of?

What high school should i go to?

The best choice are the New England Prep boarding schools. They have a 100% College matriculation, and feed to the Ivy Leagues like Yale or Harvard. I currently attend one, and the sports teams are outstanding, and recruit kids from all over the world, some from Africa for soccer, some canadian for Hockey. But you need at least an average of 90 or better to get in, and need to take the SSAT test.

Confusing 44 year old man!?

He is a divorcee, whom when i met him was in another rocky relationship. We were seeing each other for over 8 month's , although, it quickly became not so exciting anymore, I wanted to stick it out b/c (we work together).I knew it was going to end, but i still wanted some sort of friendship. He of course took me for granted and i called him out on it (via text). He did apologize but at this point! it just had no more spunk! He was the one who wanted us to end things , which i wholeheartedly agreed. Now he avoids me like the plague..doesn't want to even say HI & that makes me feel uncomfortable. I figured, things weren't that bad....anyways, i know i shouldn't care ..but he's acting like an INFANT! opinions, thoughts etc...

How to tell a neighbor I am a crossdresser?

I have a fairly private place on a lake. I have only one close neighbor. I am a crossdresser and like to dress as much as I can. The problem is that because my neighbor is so close, I am afraid she will see me when she is home. She actually came over once and walked in while I was dressed. I am not sure if she saw what I was wearing before I scampered out of the room. She is very nice, mature and open minded. She lives alone and is a divorcee. I also consider her a good Friend. I would like her to know so that I can more freely dress. Should i tell her? If so, how do you bring that up? I am serious, so please no stupid answers.

I am Hindu Girl want to marry a christian Boy.?

i am 19 year old Hindu girl. My boyfriend is 37 years old Divorcee Christian man. I am Fare But he is dark i have No problem with his Religion and Color. We loves very much each other. We have also Physical relation. My parents and brother is open minded persons. They have no problem with our relation. My Boyfriend often comes to my home and meet my parents and brother. They see him like my future husband. And my parents pressures us to marry as early as possible. My father has large business and a lot of property. but my boy friend doesn't interest in property. His interest is Me. a have a question that to marry a man who is very elder than me is how much correct?

Do you think he's interested in me more than just a friend (mixed signals)?

yes he is interested in you. he is just very shy and is a gentleman, he doesnt want to rush or make a move to fast because he is scared of your reaction, but he really does like you. just be patient he will come around, becasue when you really want something you will get it. Good Luck=)

Is t bad to break a lease contract?

I signed a 12 month contract last month and need to move, so I found someone to take over my lease, he got approved and signed a new lease to take over. Is it bad on my rental credit that I broke a lease even though I found someone to take over?

Private emails detail Obama admin involvement in cutting non-union worker pensions post-GM bailout?

scratch my back i will scratch yours. surprise surprise! obama is owned by unions that is why they are exempted from his oh so wonderful health care "reform"

Risk factors in marrying a divorcee?

there shouldn't be any more risk factors than if you married someone who was never married. just get to know her better before taking the big step. if you love her and accept her past then i wouldn't worry. it wasn't her who caused her past marriage to end it was the husband. there are never any guarantees with anything, all you can do is do the best you can in finding someone you think would make a good mate.

My boyfriend came home late what should I do?

Hey guys my boyfriend told me yesterday when he was at the works party he was going to be late he will be home half an hour but in stead he was an hour late he said he couldn't get away and his boss kept on plying the drinks. Later on when I spoke to my boyfriend about the royal wedding street he said you can come to our street party and our wedding I didn't know whether he meant me or someone else he has not formally propsed to me if he hasn't then it's not me what should I do? I have lost hope of anyone asking me to marry me I'm 33 my looks are gone I'm a divorcee even my first husband didn't propose to me. What should I do?

Shall I leave my loveless arranged marriage?

I'm just guessing that your family wouldn't be open minded about the situation. Unfortunately. Unless you do something now this is how your life will be. The only options you have are discuss this with him and talk about getting counseling and do it or leave. No point in staying with someone who isn't interested.

Do you think that the USA and UN should intervene in all the other country's that are under oppression?

Do you think that the USA and UN should intervene in all the other country's that are under oppression and under the rule of a horrible dictator?

Would a wig less barrister be less effective? Why do qualified people have to look so ridiculous?

In this day and age why does England refuse to step fully into he 21st century? Royalty - marrying a divorcee is acceptable - possibly the same becoming queen appears to be acceptable. But there is a lot more which effects the commoner which is very objectionable!

It's funny, but true and important to ask.(please read all)?

i think you should just move on already, your probably gunna say that you love the next person you like too

Should the US Government intervene with the Bin Laden body search?

I'm sure he thinks Obama is Kenyan because he hasn't personally seen his birth certificate. Just another feckin Republican retard.

Why are we involved in Libya? Is it right that the US should be the "Police Officer" of the world?

To create chaos and confusion, riots and distrust - - then whomever has the cash and backing, will have the power. Not good. (Former Democrat, Now Independent)

Is it too late to back out of our lease?

Me, my boyfriend, and a roommate shared a apartment for a year. Our lease is up in about a month but we already signed a new one. Our roommate was the head lease holder but he isn't signing the new lease. He's moving back home with his parents. But he hasn't signed the roommate release form yet. So does that mean our lease wasn't completely finalized yet? Our apartment managers are really snobby and refuses to fix the air conditioner. It gets unbelievably hot in our apartment. And she always has an attitude with us. On top of that, they are doing construction all around us which causes the buses not to run this way anymore. I need the bus to get to school and work because my boyfriend works a lot. So my question is, is it too late to back out even though me and my boyfriend signed, roommate didn't sign, and they don't even have our income information yet? Thanks!

Is it o.k. for another tenant to block my car in so I can't get out of my driveway?

I share a home (duplex) with another tenant. He has a space for his car (and enough space for someone to park their car in back (his friend or whomever)..............Then there is a space for the landlord and his truck and then one for me....................my space isn't really big enough for two cars but mine fits just fine; so that is no issue. The issue is this........Instead of the other tenants "guests" parking on the road, they park in back of me sideways (so they are just off the road and blocking me in. There is no possible way to get my car out unless I go to the other side of the house and ask them to move. My job requires me to "get up and go" sometimes within a few minutes notice (I work as a coordinator of specific services).......anyway........I don't want to have to go up and go pound on their door and ask for them to move for me every time..........who knows if I'll even have a space when I get back..............I asked the landlord what to do because I am frankly sick of complaining about everything they "rudely" do. He said to just park so far back that no one could possibly park in back of me. O.K. that sounds good. I'll try that tomorrow.........................Hopeful… I won't get a call tonight because the neighbors and I do not get along and I really don't want to deal with them. I'm not crazy about rude people. When our lease is up; we will probably look elsewhere..probably rent a small two bedroom house if we can find one....but that will be 3/4 of a year from now.............just trying to survive until then............

My boyfriend's family (mostly his younger sister) keeps intervening on our relationship. Please help me.?

I've been dating my boyfriend Brad for 4yrs and obviously we had our ups & downs but in the end we stuck together because we love each other. Last year we moved in together and his family and mainly his younger sister Francine raised so much hell. Two days ago his mom Jennifer & Francine came over unannounced. I'm thinking they just came by to visit but I had a bad feeling in my gut too but I decided to ignore it. Anyway all three of them left and about four hours later he calls me and says I wanna break up and move out and live with his mom. Brad's 30 & I'm 23. I was devistated. I went outside to ask Jennifer & Francine what was going on. Fran told me he needs to move out to get himself together because he's living in sin. I tried explaining to him that was his decision to live with me and that he was happy. Brad said nothing he wouldn't even speak up for himself. He just kep saying he had to go. I believe while he left with him they filled his head up with some sort of lie. Last night he called me and told me he loves me and doesn't want to break up. He also said he wants to come back home with me but they won't let him. Then He called me at 2 in the morning saying the same thing. Then he called back at after church today crying saying he loves me, he wants to come home, but he just can't. What should I/we do? I told his family that I might be pregnant and they said they didn't care and that he has another child to tend to instead. Me & Brad were about to get marries, but they don't want him to marry me. I'm so sad. Please help.

Heartbroken re decision made?

My 18 year old son has had mental health issues for many years namely due to horriffic sexual abuse he suffered at the hands of his bioligical father & grandfather. Since he chose to file charges with the police, his biological father committed suicide, his grandfather was called to trial but the prosecutors felt there was not enough 'evidence' to take it to trial & in the publics best interest to withdraw all charges from the grandfather so he got off scott free. I have had my son in multiple private hospitals seeking the best of psychiatric care for the last two years since he left school. He is addicted to drugs, pain medication, marijuana, you name it. He has attempted suicide a multitude of times & last night was the final straw in that he terrified my 3 year old son (his step brother), myself & his step father by indicating we were at harm & to lock ourselves in our bedroom throughout the night, that he cut himself up with a knife across his arms & legs & my fiance had to wrestle a large carving knife from him. We had police come to the house, he had a seizure in front of them & the ambulance arrived to take him to hospital but he walked out of there today as our mental health system in Western Australia is pathetic, they release mental health patients at the drop of a hat. We have told him many times previously that we cannot keep putting up with him living under our roof with his addictions that he doesn't seem to want to address & he is scaring his little 3 year old brother so he has to move out. I am heartbroken telling my own child he is not welcome in our home. He told me today we don't care about him, we don't love him, we only love his little brother, he is our only son & he is going to kill himself & we will have his blood on our hands. I have for years tried so many hospitals, psychs, taken so much time off work jeopardising my job trying to help him, I recently secured him a job & we thought things were going well but he took days off on drug induced illness. I can't help but feel guilty about our decision to have him look for crisis accommodation. I have tried to intervene & help him do this today but he told me to stay out of his life. I feel like I'm a terrible mother & have let my own flesh & blood down.

Does a Constant For Increase Speed?

Say I continuously push with a force of five newtons on an object floating in space. Does that mean that it will move faster and faster until infinity (or at lease until relativity takes effect)?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Need help with my Labtop?

Hi,when i turn my acer labtop on its fine.then i connect my T-Mobile Rocked 2.5 for internet connection.after being on the internet forabout 10 to 15 minutes the internet cuts off.then i have to re-connect back to the internet and the same thing happens again..i dont know if its the computer,or the connection .lease help.

I can't get over a woman who has a boyfriend because she treats me like she's into me...what do I do? Wait?

Ask her. Tell her that you're not comfortable getting between her and her boyfriend. She will back off unless she is really serious. If she is really serious, think about whether you want to go through with this, and either point-blank refuse her, or ask her to tell her boyfriend about you. She may be lying to him abut her sexuality, and if so, you'll be ending a relationship built on lies that would never have worked. Otherwise, he could be fine with it, in which case go ahead. If their relationship is dying, this may be a good way to put it out of its misery. This may cause damage to the boy if she isn't very good at handling the breakup, so consider whether he'll take it well in deciding whether to go through with this, but in that case he won't enjoy a relationship with a cheating partner anyway.

Living with a smoker..?

You could buy her electronic cigarettes. They are smoke free but the person using them gets their nictotine fix.

Can someone ask for maintenance money if they are not legally married without marriage certicificate?

I don't know about Singapore Law, but it seems if there is no written agreement, then it's probably not something can be held up in court.

Someone please help me. Mothers divorcee?

Claire, I'm so sorry you and your mom are going through this. I'm glad you are able to communicate with your mom, and that she is trying to leave. I understand how hard it must be for you. But don't feel guilty. Your mom is in the middle no matter what because your her daughter and that is her husband, it was her choice. You should not have to feel like you are walking on eggshells in your own home. Your mom needs to protect you as she is responsible for your well being. She needs to have a plan in place to leave as soon as possible because of the emotional abuse that is taking place. Call the domestic violence hotline in your area and tell them your situation and they can get you and your mom into a safehouse if necessary. Good luck

Show names for a chestnut?

my horse(well leasing horse) is named chesney and i REALLY need a cute show name for him, hes a pony and a chestnut. Any cute ideas??

Trusting Promiscuous Wife?

Her past shouldn't be an issue since you knew about it and got married. Why do you now have a trust issue?? I personally think she was your rebound person and you rushed into marriage and that is what the problem is.

She has a boyfriend but acts really into me...what do I do? Talk to her? Wait for it to end?

You can wait if you want, but take it from some one who knows. Never ever get to stuck on some one unless your already dating them

How much time we should have to commit?

There is always that fear of failure hanging over your heads. Love is a commitment. If you both love each other unconditionally, then you should put the past behind you and let love light the way. If he is unwilling to commit, love is really not in his heart.

I miss my aunty and I keep crying at school?

send her snail mail. tell her how important she is for you and how you really want to maintain contact.

Can My Landlord Refuse to Give Me The Signed Lease?

They are legally obligated to provide you with a copy, yes. You are actually responsible for ALL of June's rent most likely.

Do University and College Campus fall under Housing and Landlord laws of their city?

The director of housing recently ordered my eviction within 72 hours. I was not given any notice of eviction and I did not violate the lease in any way.

Horse Survey : Because I'm still awake?

I have never owned or ridden a horse, but I have been bitten by one on my butt when I turned my back on the horse while talking with the owner, so I am going to have to go with the name "Bitey".

What's the meaning of his behaviour...???? Is he a real cheat..?

Well...My boyfriend told me that he want to stop our 3years relation and he want to be my best friend for rest of our life. We can't part because we are doing a business together. We had regular sexual relation and i agreed to stop this relation with much pain because he says his family will be against our relation as i am elder to him and a divorcee. I love him so much that i can't still spend one day without seeing him and every single moment i think about him. Now he asks me that he miss sex and he wanna do it with some other gals which make me feel really bad. Now he starts to flirt with my colleague infront of me and when i question this, he says we ended our relation so i don't have the right to question him.He used to abuse me daily and I feel like mad and can't go on like this. What will i do to get over from this depressed stage and wanna know his behaviour is normal ? I think he was using me past few years and now just rejected me like this..Please any good suggestions..???

Divorced people: Do you feel overly criticized?

I kind of feel like sometimes people judge me unfairly for being divorced and they think that divorced people think marriage is some sort of game and don't give it due reverence, but in my experience sometimes things just don't work out. Sure, some people don't take it seriously enough but that doesn't mean that you didn't try your hardest. Nobody's perfect, everyone makes mistakes. Just because your marriage didn't work out doesn't mean you're a bad person, and it's hard enough to fail at a relationship that you invested a lot into without other people talking to you like you don't deserve to get married again or be happy. How do you feel you are treated as a divorcee?

How can I be credited by my landlord for money I spent trying to obtain a certificate of occupancy?

i'm renting out the first floor of a building as a restaurant in NYC, the building's C of O is not for a restaurant when it was converted 5 yrs ago by previous tenant. I'm aware of the fact that there is no CO and signed a lease that I would have to obtain the C of O no matter the cost. It's been more than a year and a lot of concerns from the NYC building dept has extended the expected time of completion, but it's almost there and I do expect to complete. Money was spent for renovations and architect fees to ensure the approval from the DOB, inspections have been passed but there are more to go. I was too naive to think that it was alright to rent a place with no C of O. If proper authorities find out that the restaurant does not have a CO, that it is being worked on, but the DOB evicts me anyway, will I be able to sue my landlord for expenses paid for renovations and professional fees invested into the building? How are my chances at actually winning the case?

Ramadan: I am honest enough to admit i do not agree with some aspects of shariah law?

1. You cut a mans hand of for stealing - his family, children suffer as a result of less chance of finding a job after due to disability. 2. You publicly lash a man or woman, you don't give them a chance to repent in privacy and they have to live with stigma for the rest of their lives as will do their families. 3. You stone a man or woman to death - you leave a widow to fend for the children who have to grow up without a parent for life. 4. You publicly hang a homosexual- your not dealing with the many people who are born with both genitals created by god. No solution or guidance on this. I agree with the divorcee and marriage laws and many others I REFUSE to admit the above!

Do you need a real estate liscence to lease your own house?

And if you do how much do you as the leaser have to pay a realtor? Also if you do need one how hard is it to get a real estate lisence with a high school level education/ one year in college?

Serious - life altering question about Marriage.?

The reason people don't answer questions like this is that, with India, there are a lot of cultural issues going on that most of us in the US don't understand. To answer your question, sure anything can "grow" into love, but that doesn't mean you should or should not marry him. It depends on how much say your parents have, and that's not really an issue in the US (except for those under 18).

Is it necessary for immediate boss to know you are a divorcee?

It is not necessary at all for any boss to know your personal matters. in fact many bosses are biased and will discriminate depending on personal matters that jobs do not depend on. Best keep it to yourself. If a boss specifically asks if you are married, consider the circumstances to see if it's relevant. If it's in a flirty conversation maybe he's checking you out to see if you're single. If it's not in a social situation, it's definitely not relevant and you can politely say that currently you aren't married.

Tenant liability for property damage.?

My old landlord is wanting me to pay for damages to a place I rented for a year. I never signed a lease and the contract I signed was a written contract. The contract only had my name, the landlord's name, and that I would pay so much a month. Since I never signed anything saying I was responsible for damages, am I still liable for them? I also had a deposit that the landlord did keep.

I am contemplating divorcing my alcoholic husband of almost 5 years. We have 2 beautiful?

You should leave him otherwise you will continue to be miserable and your kids will grow up feeling the same way. Its not okay for him to abuse you in any type of way, especially in a physical way and in front of your children. Do you really want them growing up seeing that type of behavior? I see nothing in your paragraph that tells me you should stay.

My lease is over. Can I still get "evicted"?

My lease is over at the end of today. This past month, I only paid half of my rent but still have $250 to pay. Can my landlord still file eviction even if I have moved out and my lease will be over shortly? I am planning to pay the remaining balance next week but was just wondering what I could face if I didn't pay the remaining of the rent. I live in TX. Thanks.

I can't move on from a woman who has a boyfriend because she treats me like she's into me...what do I do, wait?

Wow, you got a lot of details, but anyways, I think she is what they call bi-curious. She seems interested, but at the same time, she is hesitant because she probably has never had a relationship or actually flirted with another lady and two, she may be scared of you possibly rejecting her if she does come up to you.. The only one who knows what she is thinking is her, and if you really want to know, then you should be blunt and ask her what is up. Otherwise you are gonna keep watching her send you mixed signals and not know what to make of it.

Why are HOAs so BAD,GREEDY, and have dumb rules?

HOA in Orlando Florida is a monstrosity. Two payments per month, late and reminder fees, don't answer questions, $500 for leasing out my unit. I had enough and stopped all payments to them and stopped paying the mortgage after I stripped out the condo of all appliances, lights, and even took out the carpet. I am done with the monster of an HOA. Funny how the HOA is staffed by outsiders, not condo members.

Do you have to do the 36 months of post 911 gi bill consecutively?

I have 2 questions. I will be doing full time spring and fall semesters and taking summer off. Will my post 911 bill just be put on hold and not charge any of the 36 months or will it continue to charge some of the 36 months throughout my summer? Im trying to see if its enough for me to get my bachelors and do you have to show the lease or anything to get the bah?

She has a boyfriend but acts really into me...what do I do? Do I have to get over her? Have a talk with her?

WOW. MOVE ON. ANY girl who is in a relationship with someone else is only going to do the same thing to you later on. You sound borderline obsessed with her...and she does not sound like she is worth it in the slightest.

What can be done about this inheritance issue?

My sister never married and lived with my mum and dad. They have now passed away and I am a divorcee with a mortgage and my other sister is a widow (there's 3 of us). My parents house has been left to the sister who lived with them so she has somewhere to live - it would have been nice to have a third share of the property each at a time when it is needed but now we won't be getting it because the house has been left to one sister - and we were all brought up in the house and I was born there....what can we do?

I AM STILL PAYING ON MY 2004 330 XI THAT I BOUGHT USED. IT IS IN EXCELLENT CONDITION IN AND OUT.?

I SAW THE M3 AND AM THINKING ABOUT LEASING THE M3 IN DECEMBER AS A PRESENT TO MYSELF. DON'T GET ME WRONG, I REALLY LOVE MY PRESENT CAR. WOULD IT BE A GOOD IDEA TO LEASE SINCE I STILL OWE ON THE 330?

Do I have an alcohol problem?

I work as a translator and my job is quite stressful and I usually work long hours. Also, I have some trouble with the neighbours, who are the intervening and extremely curious type and some other problems. Sometimes I have a bottle of wine or cheap sparkling wine with juice in the evening to calm down. Lately, it's been one bottle a day and I'm a bit worried. If I don't have any, I'm okay, just less calm, sometimes I get upset and cry, thinking of urgent jobs or people who put pressure on me. As it's "only" wine, it doesn't affect my work, since it's not in the blood anymore in the morning, but I hate being dumbed down in the evening, because it prevents me from doing things I like, like painting or writing. I feel like taking a half year break, but I can't afford it, therefore sometimes it seems the easiest way to calm down. What should I do?

Wouldn't You Rather Be A Widow Than A Divorcee?

No i still wish for them to be alive so i can make their life hell for how ever long they wasted of my life for being with them

Motherboard for overclocking?

Hi, i am building a pc soon and am buying an AMD Phenom II x4 955 because it is cheap and is easy to overclock to 3.8ghz. I am looking for a motherboard on pccasegear.com and have found a really nice one - http://www.pccasegear.com/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=138_1207_803&products_id=17527 But i really dont need any of the stuff on it atm. Is this motherboard really worth the $175 and having to go will a bit less of a gpu or something? I may sli or crossfire but not for at leased 5 months. What do you think and could you suggest a mobo that works well for overclocking that cpu to 3.8ghz and isnt too much (im also buying a cooler master hyper 212 plus)

For the divorcees: how do you tolerate the ex wife?

When I first met my husband, 5 years ago he had extreme hatred for his ex-wife. I tried to be very open minded and give his ex the benefit of the doubt on many things because there are kids involved. I knew if this relationship was to develop into more, which it did, that she would always be in the picture or at least until the children are grown. Five years later I have grown to hate her and he is just ambivalent. He could care less what she does are says which is a sign that he is emotionally over her (when I first met him I think he was still stinging from the pain of the divorce). On the other hand, I find the her actions and cutting comments drive me insane! My husband and I have almost switched roles in terms of feelings for her. Bottom line, I want what's best for the kids and I don't want them to know I really, really, really, dislike their mother. How do I put a smile on my face when I see her and treat her with professional courtesy? I would like to avoid her, but there are way too many social interactions together (i.e. kids' games, school activities, etc.). Suggestions from any of the other second wives out there?

Would I (single divorcee) and my 2 British children have a chance for a Council Estate entitlement in UK?

I am a divorced mum of 2 British children and currently living in the UAE. I am already thinking about my kids' future and hoping to move to UK in the soonest time possible. My knowledge of the legalities on this matter is scarce and people would advice to marry a British national, which I think is NOT the major solution if moral and emotional concerns are to be considered. It's not like picking a cereal box from the grocery shelf onto your shopping trolley! I will be thankful to God if there will be someone who knows how to love and respect that will come to my family's life, in all honesty. But right now at this very moment I am thinking of the best future I could give my beloved children as they are the ones that keeps me going. Will appreciate all your answers and thanks to you all! " )

Monday, July 18, 2011

Is it biblically ok to marry a divorcee? He was divorced before he became a Christian, I've never been married?

Since many people are divorced and get remarried in all kinds of churches nationwide, it's difficult to believe that any church or clergy anywhere would argue that it is immoral to marry him. If YOU think he is a sinner and unworthy of your hand in marriage, that is the more important issue.

Assured shorthold tenancy ending, what are my options?

I, along with 2 others, have an assured shorthold tenancy for a period of 6 months which ends on the 7th of July. When we were signing this in January the landlord informed us that she had other people moving in in July, and so with the tenancy coming to an end we have found a new house to move to on 7th July. However, when we asked the landlord what she wanted us to do with our keys at the end of the lease, she said that we had not served her with notice, and would continue to be liable for the rent until we gave her 1 months notice. We acted in reliance of what we were told by the landlord in January, and now find ourselves in the position where we may have to pay rent on 2 properties. Where do we stand?

Breach of Lease by Landlord?

Hello, me and my wife moved into a condo managed by a certain company. When we moved in they said that the hot tub was fully functional and never actually let us in to see it claiming they did not have a key. Then we moved in and we were told that the HOA division responsible for the building did not have the money to fix the hot tub and there was no date set in stone when it would be fixed. We recently saw an add by the same management company trying to lease another unit in the building saying there was a fully functioning hot tub. We printed it and kept a record of this. It has already been six months and the agent being the management company for the principle did not inform us of this while moving in. Can we technically sue for all of our money back that we have paid so far on the lease, aside from just breaking the lease scotch free, which I know we can do. How much would that cost and would it be worth it? Probably about 6,500 spent so far

What happens to the tenants when the house is being repossesed?

I have rented my cousins house and not long after moving in i found a letter taped to the door from his bank,i accidently opened it and read if he did not make a payment within 31 days the house would be repossesed,it was $4000 behind in payments,my cousin tells me he has fixed this up and its all good,recently iv recieved 2 letters addressed to him from his bank(he obviously has not changed his address yet) and to protect myself have held them up to a light to see what it says,it says he has to vacate the property in less than 2 weeks as the house is being repossessed.im at a loss of what to do as i would get in a lot of trouble for reading his mail as last time when i opened his mail i got in trouble,i dont think the bank knows he has rented his house out either so im worried they might change the locks and take my belongings as they would think they were his,im not sure on what my rights are here,what happens to me and how long would i have to move if it does sell?I signed a lease with him for 2 years as i was worried this myt happen,stupid me for not trusting my instincs.Iv only been living here 2 months,the last thing i want to do is move

How do i get my mother inlaw out of my house?

my mother inlaw has been living with us for a yr now and she is causing alot of problems between my fionce and i we both want her out n she refuses to lv she says we have to give her 30 days to vacate but she dont pay nothing and shes not on the lease what do i do

Disability and food stamps?

I have 3 children, 2 of whom are disabled, I had to put them in a special school because the school district could not teach them. One child I had to put in the special school because he was being bullied, the school knew about what was going on and never mentioned nothing to me, til the child and three other kids came to my house lured my son from the house and tried to jump him. I told the police and they blew me off. I told the principal and she said that this has been going on for some time now. The district is paying for one to go to the special school,and the other is on a scholarship, but the special school does not provide lunches, I must pay for this out of pocket. It cost around $200-$230 in cash a month. This doesn't even count for what my family has to eat at home. Can I put this on an application and will it help me to get food stamps for them. I am a college student/divorcee. I tried the child support route but they told me the father is not responsible to help pay for school lunches. This is just temporary til I finish college in 1 year then I will not need the assistance. Who can I turn too for help? My income was also cut by $600 a month . I need help!

Is this some kind of mental disorder?

no, not at all. have you ever read the play "Waiting for Godot" by Samuel Beckett? we are always waiting on something. very rarely are we happy with what is happening in the moment. read the book, you'll love it. it's all about what your asking!

Question about creating my own lease/contract/addendum(?) for a potential roommate?

Long story short, i got screwed over by my last roommate. I am moving into new building and need a new roommate, but i want to legally protect myself with some sort of document. The apartment company itself does credit and background checks, but i'm stuck with everything if he/she bails suddenly. (he/she will be included on the lease, but i'm still responsable for the payments) Also worried about if the roommate refuses to uphold their end, and causes problems. Who could I talk to about this? A lawyer? Or is there someone else i could talk to? Thanks!

Isn't it true that if you put lipstick on a pig, it's still an illegal war Obama has gotten us involved in?

To Bob Rat above me- Yes, Bush had congressional support for Iraq. Under the War Powers Act the President can go to war if our Nation or our allies are in immediate danger without Congressional support yet has to get it within 90 days. Obama on the other hand failed to get congressional support in the allotted time frame and basically states that he did not need it. I would like to know what allie was in immediate danger? And to think he is a so called constitutional lawyer- LMFAO! Do you have the slightest idea how much we are paying for the Libya war? Billions- bombs and missiles are not cheap. We are footing 3/4 of the price tag. This was a favor to George Soros, since he was burned by Qauddafi's son, nothing more.

She says she loves me, but is she for real ?

Well it seems a little weird. If you say she is like kind of addicted to you. Also the fact that she "knows" the bible does not mean anything at all. She can know the bible but don't live by it at all. One month is NOTHING to know how a person really is... you just have to get to know her a little better. But for what you tell she might be serious about the marriage stuff. becasue she has child and she might be looking for a support for her...

Canadian working in the USA (Work Permit)?

I'm a Canadian, working for a Canadian company that has hired a company within the USA to produce a product for us. I'm paid by the Canadian company, and I travel to the United States to go over the functional requirements of our product with the United States company. At the border today, I was questioned about my involvement, and I explained this flow to the border agent, but I'm not sure he fully understood. He asked if I had a letter from my Canadian company, and I handed over the signed letter from our CEO explaining my role in the company as well as the need for me to travel to the United States to oversee work done by our supplier. He granted me the B1 Visa and said the next time I cross the border, I will probably have to provide more documentation or to acquire a work permit otherwise I may be refused entry. I've done some reading on work permits, and it seems to involve being a Canadian getting hired by an American company, which is not the situation I'm in. I'm a Canadian working for a Canadian company that is interfacing with an American company to receive a product by the American company. Based on the flow that I've explained, could someone please provide a source that goes over all the different types of work permits/Visas and what type of documentation I should always have with me at the border? (Such as Bank statements, recurring bills, Canadian Rental/Lease/Mortgage agreements, other?)

Re-marrying after Divorce - is he testing the water?

Quite frankly your past marriage has nothing to do with him.You are divorced and that's it,you are free to date who you want.He might say would you consider marrying again,that's a fair comment.I was brought up in a religious family,I got married took the vows and the marriage went horribly wrong.Faults on both sides and we agreed to a no fault divorce.I met someone else [very religious]got married and have been now for 36yrs.My ex died 2yrs after the divorce.Did I break my vows?Yes.Have I any regrets NO.Do I regret re marrying,NO.It did get very personal when we went to my wife's church to have our banns read.The minister wanted to know all the in and outs of my divorce so just be truthful to your b/f without going into too much detail of your past.You never know,he might be just leading you on.It all depends on whether or not you want to re marry.

Unprofessional landlord - how to BREAK LEASE?

The VAST majority of apartment walls are NOT soundproof!! Did YOU ask if they were sound proof? I have lived in some VERY nice apartments and NEVER lived in a place that was "sound proof". Sorry, but this is NOT a situation where you can break your lease. That would ONLY be possible if the lease SPECIFICALLY stated that the walls were soundproof, when in fact they are not. You cannot break a lease for not doing YOUR due diligence.

How do I get my name off the lease if roommate refuses to sign roommate realease form? Is that required?

I was living in an apartment with an old friend when all of a sudden once I moved in he became very rude, made me feel extemely uncomfortable, he told me I shouldn't have moved in, I had to stop him from killing himself, he was even talking to a girl that had threatened to physically harm me. I lived in the apartment not even 3 weeks before I moved out. I left when he had been out of a town for a couple days because I didn't trust his reaction if I had told him in person. I was barely sleeping, barely eating, was beyond stressed. He practically ran me out of the apartment and now refuses to take my name off of the lease. The apartment complex refuses to do anything and now he skipped on the lease. There is a $4,000 bill that is coming to me because they don't know where he lives now. Is there anything I can do to get my name off the lease and get away from this debt without having to pay? I feel it is unfair since I paid my full month of rent and bills and I was only there for 3 weeks.

What would you do in this situation?

Well , you should pick - Competion riding or Fun riding if you pick competion and return your rental horse , make sure he goes to a good home :)

Renter wont sign extended or new agreement. What can I do in TN?

We rented a lot to a friend so the mortgage co would make the sale and allow her to put her double wide Mobile home on the lot. We signed a one year lease for $0 amount knowing later we might have to rewrite the agreement. This was a very good friend in desperate need, so we have not asked for her to sign a new agreement for 2 years. This person is well off enough now to easily manage the rent. I have recently lost my job and now WE are desperate. She will not sign the agreement..where do we go from here?

Is there a clause in idaho saying you dont have to pay the property management company if the owner is in?

if the owner used a property management company and our lease will be voided 7 months prior to actual end date because the owner hasnt paid the house payment do we have to pay any more rent?

How would you define "Single Woman" in today's context ?

One who is widow or divorcee ? One who has decided not to marry ? One who is separated from partner ? Or one who is not psychologically attachment with anyone ? Or all of above ? Justify your answer please.

Our tenant, has not been paying rent, and refuse to communicate in any way, what can we do?

The best thing to do in any situation like that, it is important to contact the proper authorities about the problem, they should get it straight

Should I give up on dating at marriage at this stage in my life?

Ok, so I just turned 31 years old and have never dated anyone nor have a ever had a g/f as hard as it is for you to believe this. I grew up with an a**hole "father" who sapped my of my self confidence and, as such, I didn't start dating while I was in high school. Now, post high school, my lack of dating is 110% my fault and it hasn't been my choice for it to have worked out this way. Instead of being smart and going off to college and being able to meet attractive and single college aged women like most guys get to do in college, I was stupid, joined the USMC, and got stationed in depressing Jax, NC where the words SINGLE and WOMEN do not belong together in the same sentence. So, after I got out of the service, I moved to a city in the western U.S. which used to be a balance between military and civilians in terms of jobs, but is now nothing but a complete military town. The civilian women in the town that I live in don't like anyone who isn't originally from here so I'm pretty much SOL with regards to wanting to date here. In fact, that issue is a common complaint on the local craigslist rant board. I will eventually graduate from college here and will move, but I know in my heart that I will never be able to be "normal" because of the foolish decisions that I have made in my life regarding not going to college at a normal age like most smart American men do. At my age, there are only single moms and divorcees. With that said, it would be extremely intimidating for me to go out with a divorced woman when I'm just some stupid chump who's never even so much as had a real g/f before. When I am able to move to a non-military city after graduation, what sorts of activities would you recommend to someone like myself in order to alleviate the isolation that I will experience due to being in the strange predicament that I am in right now? I know that I will end up buying a dog to help keep me company, but are there any outdoor activities that would get me out of the house that you would recommend for a person such as myself?

Why did Edward VIII had to give up the throne to marry a divorcee but P. Charles is still in line to throne?

I have thought the same thing, I personally do not think Charles will be king and I dont believe he should since his personal life is a sham. Oops here come the thumbs down from royalists.....

UK postgrad mitigating circumstance?

I am studying in UK uni but now i'm in Thailand doing my paper from home. I wrote a mitigating circumstance to extent my research project. Actually, the project was already extended till 30 june. But i was unable to do the project very well.I have been losing motivation, concentration, interest to do things, and insomnia. I know that I have problem but in Thailand, we don't normally go to psychiatrist (or at lease for my family, my parents think that people who go to psychiatrist are crazy). However, I decided to go to psychiatrist and was diagnosed of having "Bipolar Depression". I contact the university on 20th, went to the doctor on 21st, and submit the mitigating circumstance on 24th. I'm now so worried...They didn't email me back yet. Do you think they will grant me another extension?

Would the difference in our writing styles be distracting?

The horrible grammar, punctuation, and choppy dialogue and sentences were more distracting than anything else.

Why do we keep having recessions?

Dont listen to nasty and borderline evil Marxist sympathisers like REDRONIN. This time his type are to blame, they are attempting to destroy the sovereign nation states of the world and invoke control, destroying capitalism is part of this process, destroying national identity is another part, hence the crazy net immigration that makes no sense. Blame RED RONIN AND HIS ILK. Remmember Hitler and Stalin folowed the communist mindset as well as many other mass murderers, capitalism may indeed be flawed but not on a par with the reds ways.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Problem with Hubby about sex life?

Ask him what do you have to do to make him attracted to you. If he does not give an answer then it is definitely time for you to reconsider you marriage.

Can someone help with my relationship?

Regardless of how much you love him, you deserve better respect than that. Why don't you try couples counseling.? All the best of luck to you.

Doe's he still love me?

Parents fixed your marriage? Where you live? Middle Earth? You need to forget about some dude studying on a boat n hit the block.

Do any of you divorcees out there have the ex hubby or wife from hell? Please share your stories and solutions?

I want to know of any of you out there that had an ex hubby or wife turn completely on or against you once the divorce started and specially after it ended. Please share your solutions and your stories.

I can't get over a woman who has a boyfriend because she treats me like she's into me...what do I do? Wait?

Just go for it. If she does anything with you she isn't into the guy. I mean, do you know the guy? Who cares if you hurt him. If you're going for girls at least have the mentality of a guy. Not to mention a lot of guys won't care if their girlfriend screws around with girls. So yeah, go for it. If she stays in a relationship then be around when it ends. Don't restrain yourself for the sake of some nameless guy.

If my 1-year lease says that it expires on 6/16/2011 and I signed it on 6/16/2011 is the contract void?

I want to break my lease to save on rent, is this typo enough to make the contract void? It says that after the expiration date the contract becomes a month-to-month lease. So does this mean my contract is month-to-month now?

Family dispute????indian?

Okii so my mum got married to a divorcee .. my dad died 3 years ago n he left his will on his son name who was from his first wife.....at dat time my mum signed on the affidavit dat i dont have ne obligation with the transfer....now i was wondering since he didnt sell ne property is it possible dat she can claim for the property legally through court case or not... n in some property my mum didnt gave the affidavit but it still got transferred So since the property is transferred does she have ne share on it ne more or no??????thanks

How do I cope with my boyfriend moving out?

I think it's a fair assumption that he feels living together is not a good idea, perhaps including the future. It's never certain, but you may want to talk to him and if he ignores you or shows little interest, it may be a hint that it's over.

Can't get over the girl/woman who has a boyfriend and don't know if I should even try...?

Shes "mind f*cking" u. Dont fall for her mind games. All i can say is to leave her alone. I know that type of girl and messing with that just leads to trouble. Its ur life. Maybe everyones got to learn from their own mistakes. Dont say i didnt warn u.

My Son wants to marry a daughter of Indian Divorcee single mom.?

I heard her mom had taken a huge amount of alimony from his poor husband and had played around.My son he is almost convinced that its not good for him and he can never raise a good family with that girl.Even my wife is also not convinced with this match.how can i convince him with final shot.I feel its a trap.

Who pays the state police to patrol the toll road in Indiana?

With the privatization of the toll road, does the people that are leasing the toll road pay the state police or are the citizens of Indiana?

Getting out of lease? apartment does not meet expectation?

a friend of mine recently looked at an apartment complex. the apartment they showed him was nice, it looked well taken care of and good. Where he was going to live was not available for viewing but needing an apartment and assuming it would meet the standards of the one that was shown to him, he signed a lease. when they gave him his key, the apartment he was to live in was revealed to be extremely substandard in comparison, unkempt, unmanageably peeling, bad odor, the whole gambit. He stated that he did not want to live there and the manager said that he had already signed the lease. Is there any way out of this? The manager has offered to repair the apartment at no cost but the time frame it will take to fix means he and his family would have to live rather uncomfortably.

Questions about my lease?

So me and my now ex-girlfriend signed a year long lease in November 2010. We broke up and she hasn't been staying here since April. She has continued to pay me her half of the rent. She tried to be let out of the lease this month and my landlord (and the real estate company they work with) said no. The lease doesn't say I pay half, she pays half. I'm worried she is going to say screw it and not pay her half and walk away with no consequences and the rent will fall on me. I cannot afford to live in this apartment alone. So I guess my question is if she doesn't pay and there are no consequences for her, then there will be no consequences for me if I just don't pay and move out?

My apartment company went out of business. Do i have to pay rent to the new owner even if I've moved out?

My co-signer on the lease chose not to move out and the new company wants to hold everyone to their lease.

Very big issue involving cats and our new landlord, what should I do?

If I were you, I'd confront the landlord and be honest. Mention that they have no place to go and your only option is for you to take them in. Most apartment complexes (actually I think all) charge you extra for having pets in the house. But to be honest I had a cat in my apartment and my landlord or manager of the complex never knew nor found out. I find it the right way to be honest because if the landlord were to find the cat and you never told him/her then that's twice the penalty. Just be honest! :) Good luck!

What is the method to determine lease amount for a building?

I have certain buildings which I don't use for anything. I think I must lease them to people like families, college students, institutions, go downs. But I don't know how much Rupees I must decide to each building.

Is it true caucasian are more willing to marry divorcee than asians?

I notice a lot of white guys don't mind marrying a divorcee while most asian guys mind marrying one from my observation. Tell me is it true? I personally won't want to marry a divorcee and I am an asian guy, I want to marry someone fresh that is never been married before. But on the other hand, I notice girls don't mind marry divorcee regardless whether they are asian or whites. Can someone give me their input on this issue?

If the Chinese invaded and took Taiwan would the US and other countries intervene militarily?

yes, the U.S. and other countries have a military defense agreement with Taiwan and would actively defend Taiwan with military force.

Convincing your parents to let you lease a horse?

I have been riding for 7 years and would love to lease a horse! My mom said she would love for me to have one (money's not a problem, my mom used to take care of her neighbors horse everyday and she understands how expensive and time consuming a horse is), but I need to be more responsible. I understand that leasing a horse before buying is a good option, because it will prepare me for what real horse ownership will be like. I go to my neighbors barn every day and do free barn chores, do my chores, and take care of the pets I already have. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas about any extra things that I could do to prove I was responsible enough to care for a horse? I want a horse more than anything else in the world, and I just need to prove to my mom that I am responsible enough to take care of a horse. Please no rude or mean answers, thank you so much!

How does BAH work for National guard officers going to BOLC2-3?

Hey Mark, why don't you demand enough funds to cover a summer cottage by the lake as well, and the power boat to go with it! Why should you get any additional funding, what makes you any different than the next grunt living in the barracks? How about giving the taxpayers a break!

Bad neighbors violating terms of lease?

Call the housing authority, dog feces and rotting food will attract rodents. Call police about noise, ask all the residents to call about the noise. The landlord will get tired of it when the police contact him. They will not blow the police off at least not the scone time.

Under what circumstances will the government intervene?

ok sooo me and my gf are haveing this debate that if you are oovooing with someone and they show themselves in a pornographic way the FBI or police will look in on the conversation,or the government. i am saying that they need a warrant and it is extremely unlikly that they will do it ,if they wanted to they could but there is a 100% chance they wont tune in on two 16 year old kids doing this. plzzz help me end this damm debate. who is right who is wrong. ohhhh and are the videos on oovoo recorded?

My husband has left me in one weak after marriage . Divorcee Mother in Law wants divorce ..She enjoys going?

My husband has left me in one weak after marriage . He is not picking my phone . not replying to my mails . my mother in law has stopped him. She is a divorcee. She says that we need a divorse .my husband listens to his mom only because he loves her very much. My sister in law is also with them. Ours was arranged marriage by newspaper add. My husband has left me one weak after marriage at the airport . now he is saying that he needs a divorce as I am mentally unfit . My mother in law has filled his mind against me and my entire family. My mother in law is a big devil . She has filed for her own divorce also in the court. She goes to police station frequently. first she ruined my father in law and now she is ruining her son My husband is very innocent and that’s why I love hime a lot. I cant even think of leaving him as I love him a lot . But he is only listening to his mother and she wants us to divorce. She had married her own daughter 5 years back and she has 2 small kids . She and her daughter have caught her son in law in the clutches of their love. They butter him a lot. So he is also supporting them . I want my husband back at any cost. But he is not even talking to me nor is he picking my phone. Till he talks with me how will I take out the poison from his mind which his mother has filled in his mind against me. Please help. I want my husband back . I think my mother in law has done some black magic on him . recently I met him forcefully . I tried to seduce him sexually but he was not even ready to touch me. I am crying day and night. My eyes are swollen. How much I love him.. we had a small fight in our honeymoon in which he left me at the airport only . now as per his mothers instructions he is not even ready to come in front of us for 5 minutes as I may win him by my love and sweet talks or by having sex with him . my mother in law is too clever .. But she will never destroy her daughter’s home. She loves her 2 grand children and do sweet talks with her own son in law. But until and unless my husband will not talk to me on phone how will I remove his misunderstandings and his hatred . Till he talks to me nothing can happen . so he has debarred my phone no as per his mothers orders.. my mother in law is asking us to file a case against them in police . she is not even afraid to go to police station alone as in past few years she has developed the habbit of going to police station frequently. She enjoys with policemen and lawyer at the police station . she is a totally characterless lady . she doesn’t have enough money so she surrenders her body to them . already her very strong affair is going on with a man . police people are caught in her beauty . she ia don , dacoit , gunda , dictator , terrorist , kind of person . She is very bold and stong. She is not afraid of anybody or anything as she doesn’t have a respect in the society . She roams in night at 10 pm alone . she is also trying to snatch the property of her husband, brother – in –law- and her sister in law . there is nothing stoping this lady as she doesn’t have a respect in the society . she can get nude on the street . she is constantly asking us to file a case against her . She finds court cases adventures activity . she finds a thrill in dealing with court cases . She is so amused that she has got one more case to fight . already she is fighting 3 cases against her in laws at this oldage of 55 years. She has 2 sisters and 2 brothers also who are also supporting her

Can a landlord raise the rent while in the lease?

You should not have any rent raise until the new least term. If you don't have a new lease, you go month to month and the rent can be raised every 30 days. You should write to him exactly as you have here, and also call. Your answers come from him not us.

Can I sue my apartment complex?

I was held at gun point and robbed right outside my apartment. The main light by my apartment is not working, making it very dark. The guy hide in a dark corner waiting for someone to walk by. I contacted my apartment office and told them what happened. They said they would fix the light and get a security guard. When I moved in I was told that there was a guard on duty 24/7 but you never see a person just a car parked outside the gate. It's been a week since this has happened and the light still doesn't work and still no guard. Do I have a case to sue them? I don't feel safe walking outside my own house in the dark. Also the apartments advertise how safe the complex is but at lease 3 apartments from my building have been robbed.

How do i know the girl opposite me whom i want to marry is UN married /divorcee?

If you're close enough to someone to want to marry them, I'd hope that you'd know enough about their personal life to know whether they were taken or not. Otherwise, sweetie, it's just called lust and you'll get over it.

What are my rights as a tenant in new jersey?

Okay i had two children a son age 3 and daughter age 6, i have live in the apartment for 2 years and never had a problem with the landlord. i had a yard where my kids play outside and i am also outside supervising them at all times. my kids have not damage the property or disturbing the neighbors as they all get along with myself and the kids. today i had friends over come to my apartment with their kids to play with my kids in the back yard.the landlord came to the apartment to pick up the keys of the her tentants who move out of the apartment, by the way they had no kids and we got along with the tentant too. okay the landlord came in the yard and saw me outside with my kids, my friends and their kids playing. The landlord told me in front of my friends and kids that they need to leave with their kids because no kids are aloud to play in the yard but my kids.unless i am having a party. and i told her i am having a get together with my friends and kids, since my kids do not had anyone to play with in the neighborhood, and since we can not put a small swimming pool in this hot weather aleast i want my kids to enjoy playing like normal kids with their friends. Her reason was that the kids were going to broken a window and i had told her i am here supervising the kids and so are the parents.the landlord also threat me if i keep bring kids to play in the yard that i will had to remove my kids brand playhouse that's in the yard.i normal never had had kids play in my apartment backyard my kids are always alone playing in the yard. so what are my rights, am i wrong here or the landlord is correct. by the way in the lease it does NOT state i can not have kids play in the yard. please mature answer without judgements.