Will my husband regreat this?

I got married at 18 and it divorced at 25 the first time around. Now in my second marriage a decade later I can see that some people work and some do not no matter the age. You've been together a long time so I'd say you probably have a lot of good things but that can also allow bad things to build as well. When something as drastic as ending the relationship comes up I advise first seeking a third party professional opinion. Sometimes when you are in the middle of a big nasty mess together it can be hard to get a fair perspective. Sometimes a good sexual conversation can break down walls too like on real sex advice.